Reply from Tom, Child's Age 10,14,19 - 9/25/02 - IP#: 62.252.32.6Hi Mandy obviously reading your bulletins on the board it seems like Hannah your 13 year old daughter likes to be pampered and fussed over by allowing you to change her nappy that is fine but i would suggest that if you have done all the checks with your doctor and all is fine then it can be an emotional thing your daughter is getting theattention she wants by you changeing her I can tell you are a good mum and want whats best for hannah well i would also suggest that you talk to hannah and ask her why she is messing and wetting herself but do it suttley give her a bit extra attention than your other children if you have them but make sure you dont show to your other children that you are doing this! as they may get jealous! I hope this helps you ! by the way my wife's names Mandy as well!. best wishes Tom |