Reply from Tom, Child's Age 9,14,19 - 8/13/02 - IP#: 62.252.32.6firstly sorry for the spelling errors in my last post ! ie;it reads praise should read "Phraise Nappies " and words joned together sorry about this! secondly it could be lazyness on her behalf holding herself too long and as you said not wiping herself properly i suggest wet wipes to perhaps make sure she cleans herself more efficiantly sit her down talk to her about it calmly collectively dont get angry casually when youare alone and dad or anyone is not going to be in the room ask her about it! how does she react to haveing a nappy and plastic pants on at night? perhaps that is what she is trying to get you to do if that is the case she feels insecure as sometimes can happen at her age she needs to be constantly reassured even to the point that sometimes you think to yourself oh my goodness is this really neccesary ! keep me posted as would like to know how you get on! best wishes Tom |