Interesting how the two replys before mine have nothing to do with your message. As for words of wisdom this is not an ideal world, if it were none of us would be wetting or soiling our selvs if it was we would always get it our way, i guess what im trying to say is that the extent of which everyone here knows each other is through typing back and forth messaging each other. We do not know what the person looks like, we have to rely on trust to know their age and sex, and we do. so why can we not rely on the person we are typing to's word and trust that they have a good reson, there is no need to judge no need to talk about things we dont know about, no need to talk about people, though we think we may know, dont know. well i hope i pulled off the words of wisdom thing.