... And she posted a very kind message, She offered his or her support and time to talk if someone needed it. And once again the persons head was chewed off by rude responces. Have all of you forgotten why you fear other people finding out, have the people here all forgotten if and when they were picked on for their problems, or simply just picked on!? I see so many posts people talking about whats happened to them and how horrible it was. Now with that said i just want to say, that people come to this site who dont wet the bed, it cant be helped, and i know probably around one tenth or more of you dont even have incontent based problems and just pretend that you do. And those people do so in secret they lead you to believe they are just like you, that they have the same problem, they lie to you, and you cant tell if they are telling the truth or not. But then Ali a person who has never wet the bed come up and anouces that he or she doesnt wet the bed or have any bathroom related problems, but has friends that do and offers to help anyone who needs it anyone who wants to talk. This one person who instead of deciding to pretend to wet the bed told you the truth. People here complain about all the horrid things people have done to them and then this Ali comes forward and offers her help, Ali is just a common person probably not too different from the people who make fun of you or are mean to you, not different in the way that she has none of the problems that we do, and this one person unlike all those mean people you met HAS ACCEPTED YOU, KNOWING YOUR PROBLEMS SHE OR HE HAS OFFERED TO HELP. And what is everyone responce, it basically narrows down to " This person doesnt have problems like me, i feel insulted that they even posted this." and thats what you basically say or think or atleast some or the people out there think or say the moment you read the part about them not being a bedwetter or incontent in any way. I thought all you knew the pain of fearing that you wont be accepted or pain that you havnt been accepted, and then you turn around and descriminate against all the people who come here and admit instead of playing the role of an incontent person tell you the truth, that they have none of those problems. I hope that after reading this you might have realized your faulters, and wont make the mistake of being so critical again. I didnt put my real first name because if this doesnt go the way i want and people hate me for posting this than i dont want people to know who i am, i dont put my name for fear of not being accepted by all of you... - Moderator please post this message, people need to be reminded of what they are doing. Thank you...