Hi Kelly, I am from the Netherlands (Holland You say) and I had to deal with the same thing. I visited a Dutch chat box ,and this is- as well as in your country - basically a matter of trusting each other. I chatted with this really nice 15 years old girl,and when she asked me what kind of protection I wearI answerd her honestly, that I wear at thin tena-pad and apair of close fitting rubber or plastic panties. Then she asked me what color I prefer she would "love" a certain color, bla- bla- bla. I got suspicious ,the dutch police took over and- believe it or not- "she" turned out to be my my (male) gymnastics teacher who knew about my wetting and whome I trusted .He got fired and is serving a jail sentence.But I know that there are lots of jerks out there ,here in holland too.I was asked simliar questions as you, Kelly, so I stopped visiting these sites; it's a disgrace actually,sites like this one are so important to us these bastards mess up these sites. Dear lovely Kelly people who care don't ask these kind of questions. Love, Veronica