try the depend fitted brief overnight ones they have a better absorbent factor and eith that or buy the booster pads to place into the diaper. or you will have to resort to the perfume laden attends diapers which are too tall and if you wear them you will be noticed if you shirt leaves your pants for any reason and what are you doing wearing a diaper swimming for? all diapers are not meant for swimming buy a pair of plastic pants to wear and change them in the shower after you go swimming.