if they are your true friends they will understand your issue. do not stop living your life all because you have a wetting problem, if i did that i would not have gone to college and had the time of my life there, i would not have travelled the world, i would not have been able to do alot of things because i wet all of the time and have to wear diapers 24-7 and i am a fully active person and my only defect is that i wet on myself just talk to your closest friend and explain the issue with him/her and you might be also talking to another bedwetter as well if they make fun of you they are in the wrong. hey just think at least there are not like glasses or braces where everyone can see them do your changing in the bathroom and wear a pair of underwear overthem to help with the noise factor but you will be fine. be active and enjoy life you have more to worry about than this small issue, first you have making good grades in school participating in school activites, graduating from high school, getting your drivers license, and first and foremost being yourself. you will be ok.