if you call 18004attends they will send you a sample of them. hey why do you want the attends, those perfume laden diapers, if i were you i would go with the depend diaper if i were you i would get the overnight ones to wear they are the most absorbent of thier kind and you wont be noticed everywhere you go and the attends tend to be way too big on the top meaning you have about 6-8 inches up on your stomach and around your back and if you want a bit of diginty and incase your shirt lifts up or your pants drop a bit you wont be embarrassed by the diaper showing. but to answer your question you can get them anywhere usually, the most popular ones are depends though.