yes you should wear dipers. if you have a problem with your bladder there is no point wetting your pants insted of wearing dipers put your pants over the top if you want. i'm interested about people who wear nappies with problems like yours. can we be e-friends my E-mail in chocolatesimpson@aol.com we can swap photos over the internet, i would like to see you in just your diper to see what sort of diper you wear. (e.g. pull-up, strap in, or goodnites.)