Why don't you get goodnites? Actually, theyre not as good as Depends. I dont wear any disposable, cloth only with no plastic because my mom and dad says its the healthiest for skin. It's either you wear some protection and wake up wet that way or you wake up in a wet bed and thats no fun plus your room will smell real bad after a while adn then you friends will know about it. Ask your mom and dad to get you to a doctor and check you out. Also have your back checked especially your tailbone. IT does not become fully developed until about 20 for some and this may be part of it, a chiropracter can sometimes adjust this. Find out about stretching your bladder, i do excerciese to do that and I'm doing much better. Oen other thing if you have a problem in the day but its not realy bad do what I do, use an underwear insert, they are a saoker with plastic backing but you cant hear it and it just slips inside your shorts. You could also get drymids boxers or pants that are simialr at www.drymids.com i have two pair of boxers and like them a lot.