drew i know it will be hard but this s something you have no controll of and your mother should be understanding of this. Please bring it up to her you do not want to werck your bladder by trying not to have a wetting accident, i'm sorry for you i too wear adult diapers 24-7 it is a real pain i have worn them since 13 when i could not keep from wetting myself i had it hard in school and in college but you need to keep going forward in your life and do not let this stop you from obtaining your life's goals you have lots of other things to worry about like getting a girlfriend or whatever, your driving license at 16 and keeping good grades in school and finding an activity that you can do without not too much intrusion on your wetting problem. and finally graduation from high school. you need to keep positive thoughts about this or it will ruin your social and family life keep your chin up and you will be ok. your mother is a good source of help and even though she may get mad she is just not facing reality and this is not good for you. please if you ever want to discuss this issue further email me at airportlou@yahoo.com i will only answer questions about this issue only since you are 12 and the fed's do not like older people talking to younger people about anything i just felt that you needed a boost from your issue. parents can be mean at times thats for sure. keep positive thoughts ok. everything will be ok. my suggesstion is get the youth attends fitted briefs be careful of the perfume smell or the depends sized small fitted briefs for your problem you will find these will help you out the best.