Hello there, Tom is right, it is a well-known fact that if you turn a tap on in front of someone who cannot go to the toilet, it often helps them go. This works for adults as well as children. But people should not pee in the shower, because other people have to use the shower. As for Tom being a "groomer", you can't assume that although you shouldn't contact anyone you find on here, you don't know who they are.