Relax Andrea, don’t assume that all adults that respond to teenagers’ messages are perverts, we are only trying to help. Adults don’t post messages here but might respond to a message if we have something to offer. Many of us have lots of experience with bedwetting, may have been bedwetters ourselves, raised kids that were bedwetters, or both, and have already been through most of the situations that the young people here are trying to deal with. A real pervert would probably not give his real name and age, and might try to get you to start a private conversation with him through e-mail or something. That’s where you need to be careful.