Its going to also depend on your waist size but I think you need Depends. They will probably leak you might need a throw away diaper duobler an insert that is like a diaper but smaller just to absorb more wet. Youll never hide it from anyone so youll just have to aks your parents to help you tell your brothers and sisters. Thats what my parents did for my older brother and me and all kids know that if they make fun of us they get punished for it and that includes me. MY big brither stopped wetting a long time ago and hes ok now. Maybe you might try cloth trainers like I have - I dont wet a lot just a little at night but theyre more like underpants. Try www.drymids.com or the youth 1 piece at www.getwettingchild.com or what i use www.rpdiaperdesigns.com and find the youth pullups or the adult pullups. ya they call them diapers but i think they are training pants i dont wear any plastic parents wont let me but i have a cloth insert then wear speicial made wool shorts over that. i have to do my laundry but i dont care. i also have a mattress cover and another cover jost over my main sheet just in case but its never got wet yet but thats just me.