Honesty is always the best. Dont feel hypocrytical, just tell her what happens to you too and dont refer too much about others except to assure her there are many like you too. Show her this site if you are able to. This way you could become a sole mate for her. It will mean a lot to her. Looking up your previous mail it seems you dont wear diapers? With your problem, is this not a good idea? Do you ever wet at all? Navi_p2003@yahoo.co.uk