i agree w/ alexandra... i do same as her. i got a vibration alarm clock bed shaker that shakes my whole bed to wake me up, it will wake any1, but doesnt wake not anybody else. i set it for 11:30 pm (2 hours after i go to bed) and again for 3:30 am and it wakes me sos i can get up and go use the toilet. i been almost dry for like 6 months now and now im even wakin sometimes on my own. but the best part is i dont need diapers anymore!!!! yaaay!!! and on sleepovers i use a vibration alarm watch that dad got me.  omg,, its so great not to have to worry bout diapers!! - caroline