Hello Peter! You must never feel stupid. We are all good at some things and not others. I'm good at music, bad at sport. Like you I have problems with wetting and pooping, I'm fritened of the potty, I get tense and can't use it, then i poopy in my pants. I would like to be your friend. I'm in Sydney, Australia. James. (e-mail poopyboy12@yahoo.com.au )