I want to say to your mom that she should be ashamed of herself for not being understanding and that treating you that way will only make it worse. My son is 6 years old and I know that all these kids are trying as hard as they can. My son wets during the day and at night and I know that he is trying and does not enjoy this either. I am in the process of taking my son to the doctor but I also know that some kids have a harder time than others. I think the kids are way more embarassed than the parents. Again, your mom should be ashamed of herself for reacting this way. I can tell from your posting that you are not doing it on purpose and, on the contrary are really working hard to find solutions. Maybe she should work as hard as you on the same thing! Sorry for you and keep working on it, I know that it will clear up in time.