I think you should see a phsycoligist because you said you started wetting after your friend died so it's probably because this was a tramatic expieriance for you so if you see a phsycolagist it will go away.and I'm vary sorry about your friend I lost my friend a few years ago too he died of an Over Doseage of some medacation for depression. so if you want to talk e-mail me at st8tothebrooks@hotmail.com