Hi Will. I'm sorry to hear u lost yr mom. I kinda know what it's like, my parents split up and my dad moved, so I don't get to see him, only summers. I wet the bed but my older sister doesn't. U need someone to talk to. Do u have grandparents near u, or maybe an aunt or uncle? My mom works a lot too and my best friends mom has been really nice to me. Maybe u got a best friend who's parents have time to talk sometimes. just suggesting. Hang in there!