it sounds as though you may have an infection or just can't controll when you go (incontinence). First you should have a check up with the doctor, the doctor will be able to help you there. But in the mean time, you should try to wear some protection. I suggest goodnites, they don't make as much sound as diapers, aren't as puffy as diapers, and they are more absorbant than regular pull-ups.