Hi Caren, something you should know about the people that are laughing at you, at least 11 of them probably wet the bed, have problems controlling their bladder, ect. This doesn't mean you should go up to them and ask them if they wet though. If you ever need to tell your troubles to someone, I'm always here to listen. My email is Evmaster2003@sbcglobal.net. I am a listener, not a laugher or criticizer.