That has to be rough to wear diapers to dance. Are your diapers really thick? if they are,you can ask your mom if you can try a different kind, maybe you can fit into large baby diapers, like pampers size 6. I only wet at night and wear overnight depends. i don't really think depends are that thick, but i have never seen attends, so i am not sure. Waht kind of dance clothes do you wear? maybe you can wear sweats or something to conceal the diaper. if you want to talk you can email me at mshockeyhawk08@aol.com