hey, no need to be embarassed about going to a doctor about wetting the bed, that is waht a doctor is for is to help. I also wet at night and wear depends overnights, i don't really totally soak my diaper, but it gets fairly full. some people wet more than others, so don't feel embarassed about soaking your diaper. that is what the diaper is for. plus, it's better to wake up in a soaked diaper than a soaked bedsheet. If u want, you can email me at mshockeyhawk08@aol.com, or if you are looking for a friend to talk with about your wetting.