To Z: My situation is very similar to yours (I wet the bed every night until I was 12, and had frequent day accidents as well) and for the most part your advice is great. But I agree with Joe that diapers or other protection can be very helpful for kids who honestly can't control their wetting problems; it would probably have made life much easier for me in grade school! If you want to talk more, let's do so on the adults board. To everyone else: Like Z says, hang in there! I have also been where you are, and so have a lot of adults. About wearing diapers, I don't think you should be forced to wear them, but if you can't help wetting and decide on your own to wear them, don't be ashamed of it! Just don't let the diapers stop you from trying to do something about your wetting (if you can) -- having been both places, I can tell you it will feel much better in the long run if you can get to the point where you don't need diapers anymore. Take care and good luck!!