I wet the bed when I was younger, and I started again about a year ago. It went on and on and kept on getting more frequent untill it came to the point of either plastic sheets, underpads (to go under the sheets, or "diapers". The first one I chose of course was not diapers. i tried the pads under the sheets and then the plastic sheet, but every morning I was waking up wet. So I tried the "diapers" and I must say that I really liked them over the alternatives. It sure beats wking up in a wet bed. And for sleep overs the doctor can prescribe medicine that will make you retain fluids. I tried it , but it made it hard for me to pee when I needed to during the day. so I guess what I am saying is give Diapers a try. Nobody but you and your family has to know about them either.