I have been in your shoes before. Do NOT give up! I have had to use diapers 24/7 all of my life. I have mild C. P. and walk a little funny. Becuase of the cost and wast, I am tring more cloth diapers. I have used Attend's & molicare, witch are mutch thiker. Vary few people have ever found that I used diapers over the years! I have had a wife that has been very understanding and never made fun! I have 3 children and thay all know that this is the way it is for me. My wife passed away in 1989 and I had to start dating all over! I was scared that I would not find anybody else that would put up with a single father of three children (one 1 yrs old) and me in diapers! (This was before the internet was big.) well, my last girlfreind has been with me for over 5 years now! Mr. Right will be in your life; insted of, all the junk! God bless! bossman2000@msn.com