hi, I had the same problem. The docter said I had mie etal stenosis. which means the hole is too small for it to come out all at once. when I peed it took forever and then not all of it came out and I would dribble and leak. my underwear was always wet and sometimes even my whole pants would be wet. I was embarassed a lot. I had an opperation and the problem went away. maybe you might have the same condition