Hey Effe i know i am not much older than you but i have about the same daytime problem as you. So here is my suggestion. Even though i am a boy i have found that the pads like girls use for periods work for my daytime accidents. at night i have no control so i use goodnites. but back to the day time the reson i use them is because they are not noticable and protect me very well yor friend in trusting Edward P.S. just incase you are wondering no i am not gay