i have never wet the bed myself and i never had daytime accidents,but i completely understand what u say.....because i'm a human just like u and u r a human just like me......i'm proud of u because u gave me a chance to read a very nice poem full of passion... in my opinion "wetting the pants or the bed" is not a problem at all....everybody pee u do at bed,we do in the bathroom....and remember all of us have done this when we were babies many times.....happy new year,with the best wishes