Hi. First of all, !!!!!!!!!!MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!! Robin, just tell your mom that it isn't your foult. I had almost the same problem. But why dont you want to were pull ups. Just use goodnites, trhey wont leak. Think about it, or embarris yourself every time you have to go to the black board, or just leak in a pull up and nobody will notice. Sorry for my bad englisch/americans. laterzzz