Robin: You are just at about the right age for something like your experience to happen and not being your fault. You must tell mom that it IS something for the doctor to check on. You need to find out from the doctor if you have an infection which can be treated or what else might be going on. You are 13 years old and your body is changing, ever changing. For the time being, do the best you can and do not be alarmed. But if the wetting incidents are too much to handle for you or to manage, you may have to get something to wear to make you comfortable in bed at night and also to help control the same during the day and at school.That is not so bad, is it? FIRST, you have to see the doctor, or all else does not mean anything. Robin, tell us how you are doing at any time and with whatever else you may need advice. There are lots of boys and girls with same problem you are having. Tell mom to please understand.....Mr John