about a year ago I went camping with my friends I perpasely brought up the subject about secrets to them and talk about it then they ask me why I brought it up and I refused to tell because I wanted to tell, but then again I didn't well finally they presured me so much that I started to discribe it to them and tell them how embarresing it is and because I made it sound so bad, they promised they would under stand so I told them about my diapers and they totaly understood and they hav'nt told anyone either, and then resently I told my cousin in the same way and he understands and there all cool about it. so for my advice kind of bring up the subject, get to know their reactions to it then when you tell them make it sound so bad and emberresing to you that they won't even want to make fun you and I sure they well understand.