Any involuntary wetting is not normal and CAN be fixed. I was a bedwetter for 19 years--NOTHING worked and I can tell you, medical doctors do NOT understand this condition. Usually at night it has to do with a sleep disorder more than anything, but the fact that you wet during the day indicates something bigger. What helped me is the Enuresis Treatment Center. Talk to your parents and CALL them. If your parents won't help, call them anyway and see what they suggest. The number is 1-800-DRYBED4. Good luck and don't put up with this problem any longer than you have to...the emotional scars are too great. Trust me.