I had the same problems, sometimes unable to hold it, but only at daytime. Also once during a movie, I lost waiting for the bathroom. To me the problem was high amount of urine production(loses its yellow color) and a sort of overactive bladder. Did you produce a lot of urine when you went to the bathroom every half our? If so, I don't think there's no bladder infection, but you just produced a lot of urine caused by drinks including alcoholics or caffeine. If not so, you possibly have a bladder-infection.