Sean you have a good question and it needs a good answer,so here it is. Never steal,it is wrong and wouldn't it be so embarrassing to go to court for stealing and then when they ask you what you stole you answer "diapers for me,sir". that would be way more embarrassing than just buying them. Alot of grocery stores are putting in U-Scan machines where you ring up your own groceries. I use the U-scan whenever i buy my Depend Refastenable underwear. Trust me buying Depends is more embarrassing than buying goodnites. However i have no doubt that the XL goodnites 85-125 pounds will fit you well because they fit me ok and i weigh 185 pounds. Now i have a question,does anybody know of a good diaper bag that i could carry that looks like one of those purses they make for guys and that would not make me look gay? I need something to hold 3 or 4 clean diapers and my money cellphone and all the other junk a guy has to carry these days. I belive that one day guys will have to carry purses because of all the junk we have to carry,some already do. Well anyone with answers can email me at Wilsonwilson3@aol.com