Do you always wear diapers all the time or is it only while you are at camp? If it is only while you are at camp maybe you can discuss this with your parents and say this makes you feel uncomfortable because you don't want others to find out that you wear diapers. Also, what kind of diapers do you wear? There are products out there that are possibly more discreet like goodnites that you might be able to use while you are at camp if you have to wear something all the time. Also Depend has a new product in their protective underwear line that I use sometimes that is as absorbent as a diaper but discreet like underwear. Hope I have helped. I am not "incontinent" perse, but an infection(UTI) is causing bladder control issues so I have investigated all sorts of products :)