Well i do agree that some people who wear and wet nappies for fun are just silly!! I think you will find that disposeable nappies are normally better as us older people tend to wee wee rather a lot! Log onto www.nappies77.freeserve.co.uk or www.hbenterprise.co.uk for details of comfortable but absorbent nappies that will hold a lot of liquid and keep "between the legs" dry.