i feel for you, it is hard to deal with this at that age. i never went to a slep over in my life but 1 time. i was luky i fell off the bed and woke up. if you want to talk about the spanking thing feel free to. i dont laugh at thing like that.it is hard for you, i know my email is palmon1087@yahoo.com.\ yal can email me to if you want