John, I totally know where you're coming from. Although in my case, I've never been out of diapers (nappies). I'm 17 and have yet to have a relationship. I know that I'm young, but right now, who wants a boyfriend still in diapers. I'm prefectally normal and fit in all other areas, but I have a bladder problem. I just wish that my problem would go away and I could wear normal boxer shorts like other guys. Anyway, I'm sorry that I went off on myself, but cheer up, things could be worse...you could be dead or something. Hopefully in your case your bladder problem will clear up and the nappies will come off soon.