I can appreciate where you're coming from because I used to share a lot of your same feelings. Rathing than making a huge deal out of bedwetting though if someone has younger children, you have to remember that there's a 99% chance that you'll stop wetting by the age of 18, or at least that's what the statistics show! It sounds like you've never used GoodNites or traiditonal diapers while growing-up or even now. How come? Keep in mind that diapers are NOT just for babies... they are for anyone who needs them to manage their wetting. Good for you for going to counseling though and I hope it helps! And depending on where you're gonna be going to college, there are several campuses who have specific rooms or floors set aside for those who wet at night. And as a final comment, I learned a long time ago that people will see you as you see yourself. If you'd like to chat further, you can write to me directly at: bbme69@aol.com