Hi Kevin. Seems like you learned the lesson pretty late in life. Ihave bee diapered 24/7 at least intermittently,for most of my life.Even during one of my short periods of having full daytime control, but never knowing for sure when Iwould lose that control,I quickly learned to ALWAYS BE PREPARED!(apologies to the Boy Scouts).There was never any question about wearing my diapers and panties to bed, but there were many times that I also knew that I had to wear them during the day - even when I felt very confident that I could stay dry. I never knew for sure whe n the need would be there; AND I DIDN'T WANT ANY SURPRISES! I don't know about anyone else, but for me one of the most onerous aspects of being fully diapered and pantied was the constant tension and feelings of guilt involved in protecting my "secret".During my grammar school and high school days it was not so secret among the other kids, but once I entered college and then the business world,I felt that the success of my entire career (life) depended on my ability to maintain that defensive attitude. I can't reaaly convey the toll that being constantly on guard cost me. If you are interested in sharing ACTUAL`experiences and such with me, let's just start off by using this bulletin board. stan