Hi all, Just wanted to give you all an update. things can't be better. she has finaly come out of her shell around me and we are so happy. now we sleep together (sleep not sex). she still isn't comfortable with me seeing her change so I make myself scarse when it's time but after that everything is cool. she has told me more and more about her problem and I have been searching the internet about it to understand more. thanks for all the support guys and galls. Jason