Like you, Doug, I started wetting again after being dry because of stress - with me it was family breakup at 17. Some people stop wetting when the stress stops, but I didnt and have wet ever since. I dont like nappies or plastic pants or anything, so I just sleep naked on a sheet with a big towel underneath and a cover on the mattress. It works OK for me, and it should be better for you, since you dont wet every night. On dry nights you dont have to do anything, and on wet ones all you have to do is change the towel. I'm at cyclefan_99@yahoo.co.uk