Jason, We're all delighted to read that this has worked out so well for you and your girlfriend, in such a short time after you first posted your question. It is reports like yours that demonstrate the value of this message board, and I'm glad you made the effort to find this board so you could learn how to establish open communication with your girlfriend. I think it is quite common for an adult bedwetter to think he/she is the only one in the world with this problem, and to think that no one else would be understanding and supportive. I was that way for many years. I even read reports from so-called experts who said that all children eventually overcome bedwetting, which of course made me feel even more isolated. Thankfully, most children do overcome it before they are grown, but now I know that there are many of us who do not. I hope you will bring it to your girlfriend's attention that she is not at all alone. I wish you both the best of luck.