We talked again this morning about it, She told me that She has been wetting ever since she was a kid, the Dr. says she is fine physicaly, so its in her head. I'm not going to try and figure it out, I will just accept it and love her even more. She said that she was afriad that I would run away when i found out about it so she tried to push me away so that she wouldn't get hurt. but because of the other night, she saw that I realy didn't mind and that I do care about her. Thanks again all. I'll let you know how it all turns out, Jason