Hi! As you might read, I have a similar problem, except I wet myself from nervousness, laughing hard or when something scares me. I also don’t wear dippers. Instead of that, I wear skirts, usually long ones. That way, I spare myself from humiliation of being seen walking home with wet pants. I know, it’s not 100% solution because that don’t reduce a number of accidents at all and wet patch on the ass is still very visible if you wet yourself while sitting down. As you know, you can’t hide a sudden lost of bladder control anyway, people notice that no matter what you do, but other solution is dipper and I really don’t feel wearing them at all. Good luck, Carmen