Adam-- My name is also Adam and my situation is quite similar to yours, including the sporadic wetting frequency. Most of the time I get up to go to the bathroom during the night, but sometimes I just don't wake up in time, so that I wake up in the middle of or just after wetting the bed. Sometimes (though not always) I am dreaming of having to go to the bathroom when this happens; other times I actually go in the toilet or even wet myself in my dream, and then I wake up in a panic thinking I've wet but the bed is dry! As with you there's no real rhyme or reason to when I wet, except that lack of sleep, stress and caffeine seem to make it worse (too bad I'm a grad student!). If you'd like to talk more you can e-mail me at smallblad77@hotmail.com. Take care!