Monica, I agree that you probably need to find some new housemates. If you can't do that, maybe you could try to talk to them about your problem, and let them know that name calling and tellin people is really hurting your feelings. There are people out ther who will accept you for what and who you are, if your housemates can't do that, move on. If you's like to talk feel free to e mail me at dude-78@att.net