Hi Monica ....DONT let them get to you !! You cant keep somthing like that a secret for ever ....besides if they were anykind of friends they would understand !! Do you wear diapers at all ?? Mabe it would help ?? I feel bad for you. But you gotta be strong! It could be worse !! like my post below....peeing ...AND POOP accidents too!! Take care and smile love frankie :)